Fingering might be seen by some as a teenage sex act that has no place in adult sex lives, but they would be so very wrong. When done right, fingering is The Best. It's actually also really important for female pleasure and orgasm. And that's where fingering comes in. Anyone who has sex with people with vulvas needs to know how to do it well.
Here's How to Get Way Better at Fingering, According to Women
How to Finger a Woman - The Best Fingering Techniques During Sex
Fingering is one of the best ways to pleasure a female-bodied person. It allows you to give them really targeted, focused stimulation, and can be one of the best ways to help her have an orgasm. Like any other sexual activity, step one is to make sure your partner enthusiastically consents. Attitude is everything when it comes to fingering. In particular, many women struggle to receive pleasure, and worry about their partner not enjoying the time and effort that fingering takes. You can help set them at ease by letting them know you want to do it, and that you have all the time in the world.
How do you finger a woman? What your partner should actually be doing
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We can all agree that the 'in-and-out' technique doesn't work. Plenty of women have laid back and faked a very convincing moan while their partner fiddles around down there, doing what feels like searching for gold. If fingering is performed incorrectly, it can actually be a really painful and uncomfortable experience. But, we have to cut him some slack.